Told A about my horror year 10 year today and brushed on the subject with P and now just waiting for his reply. I find it ok to talk about now, but tbh I think its just harder for people to hear. Like what are they supposed to say to it?? "sorry you nearly had an eating disorder" A was pretty much just shocked, and didn't really pry, and well P I can just see this subject being too much for him to handle.
Shame though, would be good to talk it over with him.